A WEEK WITH HERWAYS IN ITALY

 Almost 27 years ago we met Tom and Anita Herway in Belgium.  Tom was the bishop of the international ward and Anita was the seminary teacher for our teenage children.  Nine years ago, we met again at the temple in the Netherlands.  That meeting led to Elder and Sister Herway serving as humanitarian missionaries with us in Europe.  Unknown to us at the time, they started serving again in Italy last Fall.  

This week we had the wonderful experience of traveling to Milan and with them visiting half-a-dozen NGOs and units of the municipal government who serve the poor and needy in Milan.  Both Eileen and I were very impressed with the professionalism and dedication of the individuals we met with.  Those managing the organizations we met with were 80-90% women and aged between 20 and 40 years old.  Only two of the individuals we met with were over the age of 50. While immigrants and refugees are more accepted in Italy than in some other countries, those working with the poor and needy need to be motivated by a strong feeling that what they are doing is not only the right thing to do but of great importance, as public praise and the pay level are certainly not motivating factors.

After working in Milan during the week, it was fun to see where Elder and Sister Herway live in Como and then to spend Saturday with them traveling on a train to St Moritz, Switzerland.  I (Russell) have been impressed at how well Eileen has been doing given the amount of fast walking we have been doing, 15,000 to 19,000 steps per day (Eileen keeps track).  And we have both been healthy during our two months here.  I do believe we are being blessed with good health as we serve as missionaries.  This week’s entry is short as we didn’t get home until 8:30 pm tonight and we are both tired.  Our “work hard play hard” mantra was easier when we were younger! 

                                              

Sister Bluth who is one of our senior missionaries, gave a FHE on Monday night about her experiences in decorating the inside of the temples. She gave a very informative, interesting and spiritual presentation.

Sister Bluth was the project manager decorating the interior of the Draper, Utah Temple. 

This is a photo of a preliminary sketch of a smaller temple President Hinkley drew on a napkin while traveling home after visiting Colonia Juarez in Mexico. He had been reflecting on the need for Saints in rural areas to receive the blessing of temple ordinances.

Our visit to La Rotunda included seeing a sewing room where lower income individuals including refugees can learn sewing skills.  Shown below are some of the baby onesies which have been sewn by beneficiaries.

Beneficiaries' can take bike repair classes which could be a very beneficial skill

Colorful murals are painted on the side of the walls near the TDH headquarters to give the neighborhood a more cheerful vibe

Psychological services are offered at TDH in addition to having a store which operates on a point system based on the size of their family.  Refugees can "shop" in the store free of charge to provide goods for their family members. This photo shows two volunteers, previously refugees, organizing the goods for the store. 

The municipality of Milan operates a Welcome Center for migrants and refugees. They offer services for 1000-1500 people/month.  They have a number of translators available so services can be offered in the refugee's native language. One of our humanitarian projects will fund a garden area with tables and chairs so the refugees can enjoy the outdoors without threat of violence.

This painting was done by one of the refugees who came to the Welcome Center.  Even in the midst of bad weather, beauty can still come forth. 

Center for Unaccompanied Migrant Minors

 Unaccompanied minors are from other countries without adult supervision. Here they are offered psychological services, educational support, language tutoring.  Below is a photo of the professionals involved in their care.

At the Ronald Macdonald House Sister Herway joined me in getting in the snuggly chair which can offer comfort to family members who are stressed while their child is in the hospital. 

We saw this statue in a store window the night we visited the Ronald Macdonald House.  Who would ever buy this?

Due to scheduling challenges, we were only able to see  9 minutes of the Italy vs Japan paralympic hockey game.

We didn't go see this castle, just took a quick photo op on the way to the Metro. Sforza Castle was near our  hotel and was built in the 1300-1400s. 

Quick photo stop in the Galleria

We would have loved to go in the Duomo, another quick photo stop.  Some kind of demonstration was taking place outside. 

Italian gelato is delicious with a variety of flavors.

Healys and Herways on the train to Como. 

We took the Bernina Train to St Moritz Switzerland. We ended up in a blizzard on the way home. 

St Moritz is not inexpensive, but we splurged on lunch over the lake. 

Snow man weather

Hotel in St Mortiz.  There were extremely expensive cars in St Moritz including some in front of this hotel

Gratefully I wasn't decapitated while taking this photo.

We had very long days. Russell used the toilet as a desk to catch up on his work. I told him he better make sure there was a towel underneath the computer. YUCK!

Leaving Switzerland. It was a beautiful drive from Milan to St Moritz, but a long day getting home. 

PERSPECTIVE

On the weeks that we are in town, we try to go to the gym.  The building we work in has a very nice facility.  We have found that it is difficult to go during lunch because we always seem to be too busy.  Going before or after work is complicated by our sharing a car with another couple. On a few days, the elder with whom we share a car has wanted to stay after and go to the gym while his wife got a ride home with other missionaries.  This week we were blessed by two other couples who were traveling and allowed us to use their cars for a few days while they were gone.  This has allowed Elder and Sister Walch, the couple we share a car with and us to each have a car to ourselves this week.  We and several other couples who are carsharing are looking into leasing our own cars during our stay here.  While the cost is at least double the amount that we would be charged by the Church for a car, it would be nice not to have to keep to a set time schedule to start and stop work each day, and to not be without a car every other weekend. 

On Friday Eileen and I both had interesting experiences in the gym.  That day Eileen tried for the first and probably last time to try going at the beginning of the day.  I figured I could cover for us in the office.  It just so happened that we had a fire alarm evacuation while she was working out.  Fortunately, she was on the treadmill at the time, an elder was actually in the shower when the alarm went off.  I should have taken a picture of us all standing in the parking lot.  Eileen was freezing, sweating without a coat.  One of the other couples who had their car keys let Eileen sit in their car until the drill was over.

That evening after work we both went to the gym.  The lockers all have combination locks that you set yourself.  I had heard of others being locked out of their lockers when the locks failed to reopen.  But my experience had always been good until that night.  By the time I realized that my locker would not open, almost everyone had gone home.  Someone had to be called back into the office to reopen my locker.  The employees told us that the locks failing to reopen happens all the time.  Good to now know.  I won’t lock my locker anymore.

Yesterday, Eileen was texting with a Sister living in the UAE.  She and her husband are volunteers there working with Family History.  Eileen started texting her a week ago when we first heard of the air strikes in Iran.  Her description of how they were under their desks, sheltering-in-place while listening to explosions and rockets passing nearby made our problems with carsharing and the gym seem quite insignificant.  I feel very blessed and fortunate to live in a clean and safe place, where my worry is what I will choose to eat and not if I will have anything to eat. Far too often I get caught up in my rather trivial problems while many others of God’s children are suffering truly serious and grave issues.  I am grateful for the opportunity to serve, to work on humanitarian and disaster relief projects.  From the office sometimes I lose site of the suffering those benefiting from the projects are experiencing

This a lego version of Neuschwanstein Castle done by Norbert in the Area Office.  It has 11,000 pieces. 

We were invited over to the Silvestors apartment for FHE and ice cream potatoes. We thought it was a typo, but it wasn't.  Ice cream shaped into a potato.  

We have quite a nice gym at the office.  The Germans are serious about having the office decked out with healthy opportunities.  We have a resting room with 4 massage chairs, a massage room with a massage therapist who comes to offer free massages. (I have yet to get in on that deal).  Fresh fruit and veggies are delivered to the office each Monday and Wednesday.  It is a nice option if you didn't have time to get a lunch

                                     

       

It seems like eating this pizza counteracts any benefit of going to the gym, but it was very good.  Russell and I shared this pizza. Most people were eating one pizza per person.  We thought it was way too big for one person to eat.  

We bought a 3 Euro vase at Woolworths, the roses were 6 Euros. Russell said he will get me fresh flowers each week. 

We saw lots of  people driving convertibles yesterday. The weather has been beautiful. 

VISIT FROM TWO PROPHETS, SEERS AND REVELATORS

This past week the Area office was host to two apostles, Dale G. Renlund and Gerald Causse. They along with S. Mark Palmer, of the Presidency of the Seventy, came to do a review of the Europe Central Area.  On Wednesday morning we had the privilege of hearing them speak to the employees and senior missionaries.  We (both Eileen and I, and The Church) sustain these two men, along with the other apostles as modern day prophets, seers and revelators.

I (Russell) would like to share one point from each of their talks that stood out to me.  Elder Renlund reminded us that although the world is in turmoil, that we need not fear because we know that ultimately God will prevail, Christ will return and usher in the millennium, and our place in His kingdom can be certain by keeping our temple covenants.  That does not mean the road between now and that certain future may not be difficult, but we can be assured that right will, in the end, prevail.  Elder Causse spoke on stiving for unity with those with whom serve, and how receiving revelation is usually dependent upon our doing so.  I believe this is true in many aspects of our lives.  Nothing leads the Spirit to depart from us as quickly as contention does.  Elder Palmer talked about the growth of the Church in Europe and how it has been accelerating in recent years.  It caused me to wonder if this was not just due to the missionaries going out and gathering God’s children into the Church, but perhaps because God’s non-member children are also coming to where the Church is and finding it.  Like in North America, many immigrants are coming to Western Europe for a variety of reasons: to escape war and political turmoil, to find religious tolerance, and to seek economic opportunity, to name just a few.  While they may come for a variety of reasons, all can benefit from finding the Gospel of Jesus Christ and His church.

Yesterday we decided to take our day off to go see the country.  We drove to Nuremberg, about 140 miles southeast of Frankfurt. While it was good to get out and do something different, my lack of preparation made it plain to me that what was once second nature to me has been neglected as of late.  It did not occur to me to check for road closures.  That cost us about two hours.  Nor did I plan out exactly what we wanted to visit and the closing times.  We arrived at the castle ticket booth at 3 pm.  The castle closes each day at 4 pm and the last admittance is at 3 pm.  We watched as the small group just in front of us in line were the last ones admitted in.  But the brats were great!

                                 

Temple night with our zone at the Frankfurt temple. We could only get part of the group in the photo because others had obligations right after the session and left quickly.

                                      

Saying goodbye to the Eddys and Ginghams with Elder Pixton playing the guitar.  We served our second mission with the Bingham's when we were in the missionary department.  He is an orthopedic surgeon who is now the Area Medical Advisor.    He and his wife have served in the missionary department, Ukraine, Nauvoo, Frankfurt and will leave for New Zealand in 2027.

                                    

Twenty eight of the senior sister missionaries had lunch at Sunflower Garden restaurant organized by Sister Denny who is a master party organizer.

                                                 

What a privilege to have two apostles visit the Europe Central Area. Elder Renlund and Elder Causse shook every individuals hand.  We actually were able to shake their hands on Tuesday when they came by our department and also at the devotional. There was a photographer taking photos of each one of us which we hope to get at some point. 

                                        

Sister Denny took me to the pools in Bad Homburg Friday morning so we could swim laps. There were at least 8 pools to swim in.  We swam outside for a while with the fog hanging over the pool it was really magical.

                                          

While the Sisters went out to eat on Friday the Elders went for brats.  It was during the Elders adventure that Russell found out that the Hills were going to Nuremberg on Saturday also. We decided to join forces and go together. Unfortunately the museum documenting the trials in Nuremberg was being renovated so there wasn't much to see there.  We ate lunch at this restaurant which first opened in 1492. Afterwards we walked to the castle, which closed to any new visitors 3 minutes prior to us getting there.  We wandered the town and ended at Albrecht Durer's home. Durer is a famous painter in Germany who lived in the house below starting in the 1490s. It is now a museum.

                             

The Durer house constructed in about 1420.

                                               

Albrecth Durer's self portrait and praying hands.

                                              

Cobblestone streets and medieval houses are plentiful in Nuremberg

Nuremberg castle built around the year 1000.

This area was used an ice skating rink, but the surface wasn't even cold.  Russell thought it might be a type of plastic that people were skating on. 

The biggest concern of the day was when we heard that bombing had started in the Middle East.  I (Eileen) spent most of the way home texting back and forth with some friends of ours who are serving in the UAE.  They have been sheltered in place since Thursday.  Our prayers go out to all the innocent people put in harm's way by this conflict.