Saturday, August 27, 2016

FINDING MY ROOTS, HAVING FUN WITH THE REFUGEES

"Every Monday morning the Area Office employees and missionaries meet together for a devotional.  About once a quarter we have a member of the Area Presidency speak to us.  These meetings seem a great way to start the week and give us greater insight into the individual presenting the devotional.  Last Monday (August 22), I (Eileen), was asked to give the devotional.  I have attached my talk below.
The Europe Area Presidency has listed three goals which they would like us to focus on: 1) Bring a friend (to church), 2) Become spiritually and temporally self-reliant, and  3) Find an ancestor (genealogy).  On the back side of the card (see picture below) listing the three goals there is a section relating to the third goal. It contains a box to check when you have completed the “My Family Booklet.”  There is both a printed version of this booklet and an electronic version which can be completed online. Within this booklet we can list our ancestors and also note whether or not their temple work has been done. There is also a section to write stories and memories about ourselves and also our ancestors.  I would like to share a few recent experiences I have had associated with my family history efforts.
        Prior to this mission we were full-time missionaries serving in the Missionary Department at the Church Office Building. We were part of the Family and Church History Headquarters Mission.  This was a little awkward for us as neither Elder Healy nor I had done much in the way of family history work.  We were part of a missionary branch where there were 275 missionaries, most of whom served in some genealogy or family history capacity.  We frequently heard talks on family history and I even joined the family history Sunday school class.  Every Tuesday, members from our ward would attend the Salt Lake Temple, where ordinances were performed for deceased ancestors.  We frequently joined this group, however we never brought any family names of our own.
With time the Spirit of Elijah started to take hold in my heart.  I was able to search out ancestors on Family Search, (a church sponsored web-site for genealogy and family history work).  I helped my father attach a brief life sketch online for both of his parents. I uploaded many photos of my ancestors to Family Search. Most of my Saturdays were spent helping my parents with their personal histories.
When I moved to Germany I was concerned that any further efforts to search out my ancestors would be curtailed.  Shortly after moving here I had the opportunity to go to the Swiss Temple. When my father heard that I was going to Switzerland he suggested that if I had time, I might want to try and find his childhood home.  After our visit to the temple, on my Father’s 92nd birthday we drove to Basel, Switzerland and located the street where he had lived as a toddler, while his father presided over the Swiss German mission. It was a very special experience to be able to walk the same streets which my father and grandparents had walked 90 years ago.
Over the last 2 months I have been able to help with the editing of my parent’s and grandparent’s history.  I never knew either one of my Grandfathers personally as both passed away before I was born. By reading their histories I have felt a closeness to them.
As I read the histories of my paternal grandparents the memories and testimonies seemed particularly applicable to me at this time.  I don’t think they would ever imagine how important those stories would be to one of their descendants, a future senior missionary serving in Germany. I have been inspired by reading their memoirs. Their challenges while serving the Lord make mine seem rather trivial.
My grandfather Hugh J. Cannon served three missions in Germany. His first mission started in 1891.  During the course of this mission his brother who was serving as a missionary in Berlin passed away. His brother, David Cannon was one of 21 missionaries who died while serving in Germany during the early years of the church. My grandfather collected the necessary documents and accompanied the body of his brother back home.
In 1901 my grandfather returned to Germany to serve as the mission president.   Elder Francis Lyman authorized the printing of the Book of Mormon and Doctrine and Covenants in German, and he gave my grandfather charge of the translation and printing. My Grandfather mentioned what a great responsibility Elder Lyman had given him and how he hoped to be able to live up to the task.
There was much opposition in Germany to the work, and missionaries at different times were imprisoned or banished. The complaints were not that the missionaries had broken the law, but merely that they were "Mormons" and undesirable and that they could not remain in Prussia. A Book of Mormon was sent to the Kaiser, along with a letter asking for leniency. It was returned. On Saturday, June 6, 1903, all those who were working for the mission office were ordered to appear at the police station, where they were handed their banishment papers.

My grandfather’s first wife passed away in 1914 and he married my grandmother, Sarah Ellen Richards, in 1917. In 1925 my grandfather was asked to serve again as mission president, this time he would preside over the Swiss-German mission. He took 5 children with him, the youngest of which was my father. Two of the children were from his prior marriage.

         My grandfather would later write: "We have virtually lost our home since coming over here. We are poor. But what family of even rich people has the opportunities which are ours. We have a beautiful and comfortable home here, more convenient and comfortable even than the one we left. The entire family is acquiring a practical and fluent knowledge of the German language.” 

From my grandmother’s journal we read, "The German language was hard for me, and I had few opportunities to speak German at first.  At Chemnitz, Germany, August 23, 1925, I spoke in meeting with an interpreter.  While attending one of the meetings, I think I experienced the gift of tongues. I realized that I was understanding practically all of what was being said by trying to grasp the meaning without interpreting word for word. In October, I spoke in German for the first time in a meeting." 

 It will be 91 years tomorrow since my grandmother experienced the gift of tongues in Germany.  I am hopeful that perhaps at some point I might also be given the blessing of understanding the German language.

When my grandparents returned home from Europe they found that their renters had not taken care of their home and it was ruined. Three years after their return my grandfather died. My grandmother was left a widow at the young age of 42 with 5 young children to care for. She lived as a widow for another 57 years.

Her journal reads “I felt that the bottom had dropped out of everything and that life was not worth the living. As I feared before my marriage, widowhood had come to me early -- only fourteen years of married happiness. But those few years of companionship and love, although hard at times, were so wonderful that I tremble to think of what I would have missed if I had not had the courage to take that important step. What would life be worth now without my dear and thoughtful children and my anticipation of an eternity with them and such a wonderful husband?"

I have cherished reading the words from my grandparent’s journals. President Spencer W. Kimball said, “I urge all the people of this church to give serious attention to their family histories, to encourage their parents and grandparents to write their journals, and let no family go into eternity without having left their memoirs for their children, their grandchildren, and their posterity. This is a duty and a responsibility. ... Those who keep a book of remembrance are more likely to keep the Lord in remembrance in their daily lives. Journals are a way of counting our blessings and of leaving an inventory of these blessings for our posterity.” (General Conference. April 1978)

I am grateful for the Area Presidency’s reminder of the things I should be focused on in addition to my missionary responsibilities. Last week I found some family names to take to the temple. We just returned last evening from our trip to the Hague Temple.  This was the first time I have ever done ordinance work for a family member. It was an incredible experience to be baptized, do sealings and other ordinance work for my grandmother’s cousins.  Temple work has never been so meaningful to me."




My father is the baby, sitting on my grandmother's lap.
My grandfather and three of his children
  I have been unable to visit the refugee camp recently due to our busy schedule. Several of the senior missionaries have spent time there creating a lounge area for the adult members of the refugee camp to relax in.  The missionaries  brought sewing machines and helped the refugee women make the cushions.  I am impressed at the effort which was put forth into making this lounge a pleasant gathering place for the residents of the camp. 



This past Tuesday I spent several hours at the refugee camp.  When the missionaries visit the camp we do not dress in missionary clothes or have missionary tags on. We are attending hoping to bring some happiness and joy to the refugees lives. We bring a variety of items to play with and let the children decide which activities they would like to participate in.  The smaller children seem to especially love playing with the playdough. Several children and even one of the fathers used marking pens to color a mandala. I have not ever seen a mandala before. It is a form of art with intricate designs that can be colored in. It is quite often used as art therapy to help heal the soulSomeone had brought craft items consisting of construction paper, sequins, and feathers. A 10 year old girl in the camp decided she would like to make a decorated mask. Several other children followed suit.  I enjoyed helping them make their masks.

He loved the google eyes
  Other children tried giving this little boy a bigger feather, but he insisted he wanted the yellow feather.
Sister Keyser doing mandala with child
Sister Rich making mask
This little girl was very proud of her mask

Sunday, August 21, 2016

GOING HOME


I (Russell) mentioned last week that I had been to see some doctors and that I would be going back this week so my referring physician could read the x-rays and let me know his opinion of how I was doing.  When we last saw him he said to come back next week after having the tests and it that it was not necessary to have an appointment, to just drop in.  It sounded too easy and it was.  We ended up having to go twice to find the doctor in the office.  Only after the second visit did we learned that the doctor we had been seeing was not even the doctor I had the original appointment with.  Eileen and I emerged from the last appointment with different feelings.  Mine was one of relief at having the matter finally finished.  No more doctor appointments!  Eileen’s was one of frustration at not being able to communicate effectively in German.  I think this may just add fuel to Eileen’s efforts to learn German.

On Friday we drove to the LDS temple in The Hague, Netherlands.  The temple there is small in comparison to those in Utah and appointments are necessary for certain ordinances.  In the temple sacred ordinances such as baptism and marriage are performed for both the living and the dead.  These ordinances are effective both in this life and the life to come.  Eileen and I had both found names of ancestors to do work for in the temple and we enjoyed our visit there very much. 

 Den Hague Temple
On Saturday morning when we returned to the temple, just as we got out of the car someone called to us.  It was Anita Herway and her husband Tom.  When we lived in Brussels over 15 years ago they were in our ward there.  Tom had been our bishop and Anita had taught our children in seminary.  It was great to see them again.  We learned that Tom is retiring and that they are moving from Brussels in two weeks.  I asked what they had would be doing in the next phase of their life.  Tom told me that after doing some vacationing and catching up with family back in the states that they were planning on serving a mission.  I mentioned that our last mission had been in the Missionary Department working with senior missionary assignments and that I would be happy to help them understand the process if they had any questions.  Tom then told me that the reason they had come to the temple that day was to seek guidance as to how they should proceed with their mission plans.

There are times in your life when you recognize that events are not luck or just coincidence, but that there is a divine purpose in why you are where you are at that exact moment.  Eileen and I talked with Tom and Anita for quite some time about their mission plans.  In the end I can’t say that I know exactly what it was that was so important for them to learn from our visit.  Perhaps we will never know.  But I am absolutely confident that it was meant to happen and that something communicated between us was important.  As the Prophet Alma told his son, “by small and simple things are great things brought to pass.”  I am sure Tom and Anita will make great missionaries and I feel humbled to have had this brief encounter with them this weekend.
Healys and Herways
After leaving the temple on Saturday afternoon we drove to our old home near Brussels.  It was nostalgic to look at the house and remember all the good times we had there.  For both Eileen and I it was truly one of the best two-year periods in of our lives.  During our time there we had a closer relationship with our children than we have ever had.
Our Home in Overijse (We had flower pots with geraniums hanging outside every window)
It was a grand old house-we loved it!
Grand Place-many buildings dating back more than 300 years



We had dinner outside just as the sun was going down
Earlier today we had the opportunity to attend church in the Brussels International Ward where we attended while we lived there.  The ward is by nature a transient ward so most of those attending we did not know.  In addition to seeing the Herways again, the 16 year-old son of Leticia Binwag came up to me and introduced himself.  He told us that his mother was sick and unable to attend today but that his mother had asked him to say hello to us.  He was just a baby when we left Brussels.  We also saw Jenlyn and her daughter Jennifer.  My son Vijay and I were her home teachers when we lived here.  Jenlyn had recently gone through some very hard times just before I met her 17 years ago.  It was good to see her attending church and active in the gospel.  Her son Kurt, who I remember as a very active preschooler is now submitting his papers to serve a full-time mission.
Jennifer, Jenlyn and the Healys





Sunday, August 14, 2016

KIDNEYS AND CASTLE

This week I (Russell) finally did what I have been putting off for a couple of months.  I went to have some medical tests done as a follow-up to the operation I had just six weeks prior to starting this mission.  Although I have been feeling well with no apparent symptoms, I had promised my doctor back home that I would do this.  The test was the same one I had just eight weeks prior to entering the MTC which revealed that, following the two kidney stone procedures I had between Thanksgiving and Christmas last year, I had stricture or blockage of my right ureter.  Similar to my current state I was not then symptomatic so the findings took Eileen and I by complete surprise.

Fortunately I was blessed to have access to great medical care and a quick operation to remedy the situation.  Had I been living just a generation ago or in most places of the world today I would have probably lost a kidney.  As it was I just had the inconvenience of trying to get the operation done in very short order and having the stent pulled after our first week in the MTC just a few days prior to boarding the flight to Germany.

Going to see the doctor here in Germany is a bit different than in the States.  The first thing that stood out to me was that immediately after the radiologist did the test he had me come in and review the x-rays with him.  He told me what he saw and gave me a hard copy of the x-rays.  The cost for the whole procedure was under $150.  The same procedure cost me (my insurance company) over $750 when I had it earlier this year in Utah.  When I asked the referring physician when I should come back after having the test so he could review the Xray and the blood test done, he said next week.  When I asked for a specific time he said that he operates on Thursday, any other day would be fine and to just drop in.  While just as professional and competent, the doctors here seem far less formal.  Perhaps that is a reflection or our litigious culture in the States.

As I was leaving from the procedure on Friday the doctor looked at my tag and asked what church we represented.  I told him and gave him one of my business cards.  He said he was Aramaic Orthodox, but that his church building was a long ways away.  We told him ours was only a little over a mile from his office.  He said he might join us there sometime.

Coming to the end of this months-long ordeal I find myself both relieved and grateful.  I am very grateful for a good doctor who was willing to see me on the Saturday of Thanksgiving weekend, which allowed me to not miss work (serving in the Missionary Department) and still have my multiple kidney stones removed.  I am grateful for Home Teachers, Priesthood Leaders, my son and son-in-law who gave me priesthood blessings during the five months during which I had the three operations.  I am grateful for a good Bishop who took me to see the doctor on New Year’s Day to get my second stent removed.  I am very grateful for family members who supported me during this challenging time, particularly for my wife who was by my side through it all.  And I am most grateful for a loving Father-in-Heaven who has comforted and looked after me – I’m sure more than I am even aware of.


Yesterday we had the opportunity to visit a castle a couple hours west of here.  Burg Eltz Castle is a medieval castle in the hills above the Moselle River between Koblenz and Trier.  It is still owned by a branch of the family (the Eltz family) that lived there in the 12th century, 33 generations ago.  In one of the rooms there was a large painting of a genealogical fan chart, which was several hundred years old.  On one side it showed the husband’s ancestry and on the other side it showed the wife’s going back many generations.
We walked in to the castle on a very beautiful trail
As we came around the bend this was our view
Our traveling friends-Elder and Sister Rueckert
The armory
Husbands anestry tree

Wife's ancestry tree




Sunday, August 7, 2016

FOOD NANNY, BIKE ACCIDENT, ZONE CONFERENCE

We have had the privilege of getting to know many wonderful couples while serving in the Area Office.  Currently we have over 20 couples serving here along with one companionship of single sisters.  Every other week we have a Family Home Evening for our Zone.  This past week we had Sister Liz Edmunds teach us some cooking skills. Sister Edmunds has had her own television cooking show and is also known as "The Food Nanny. "  She invited us over for dinner on our second day here in Germany.  The food was incredible. I didn't believe her when she told me that her loaf of fresh french baguette took 45 minutes tops to prepare from start to finish.  On Monday evening she demonstrated her bread recipe, then offered us six other mouth watering samples of things she makes out of her bread recipe. We also had tastes of chicken white bean chili, and Mexican Chocolate cake.
Many years ago I (Eileen) used to make my own bread. Over the years I have simplified my cooking.  Listening to Sister Edmunds encouraged me that cooking doesn't have to be complicated to taste good.

Elder Mitch Bausman demonstrating preparing the bread recipe. We have received bread several times from Elder Bausman.  It is such a treat to open our door and have a hot loaf of bread handed to you. Yummy!
Creating a fabulous appetizer

Sister Bausman and Sister Caracena helped with the preparations for the evening.
Sister Edmunds

Tuesday I went to an orthopedic doctor to check on my hand.  Last weekend I had an accident while riding my bike. In our recent travels for our calling we had done a lot of sitting in cars while driving.  We were both anxious to get out and get some exercise.  At one point during our bike ride I missed a turnoff. When I realized I had missed it I did a U-turn only to see a car coming around the bend straight towards me.  I was concerned about getting hit and tried to jump the curb to get on the sidewalk.  It was a situation where my mind thought I could do it but my bike was unwilling - or perhaps more along the line of the phrase "the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak." I totally did a face plant, putting my hand out to stop me.  My hand immediately started swelling and I had a lot of pain with no ability to move my thumb. On Sunday I had one of our local missionary doctors look at it.  He thought I should have it checked by an orthopedist.  The orthopedist took some X-rays and I had just a small fracture in the knuckle.  It was truly a tender mercy as he said he was sure I had a more significant injury.  I wonder if my guardian angels ever get tired of watching over me?  I am currently putting some gooey strips of gauze with creme on it and wrapping it with an ace bandage. Yesterday we went on another bike ride, fortunately with no problems this time.  I just needed to remember to brake with my left hand and have Russell change/lower my bike's gears half-way into the ride when we started to go uphill on our return home.
Looks like a chicken leg to me
Wednesday we participated in our first Zone Conference.  The subject was Developing Christ-like attributes. We had several speakers including two couples who are leaving our mission soon. We also had a lovely luncheon afterwards.  Elder Gary Sabin, who was called as a Seventy in last April's General Conference and has just arrived in Frankfurt as the third member in our Area Presidency, also spoke to us. We are so blessed to be here serving in the Europe Area.
Our Zone