This last week has been busy with the first five of over a dozen new cars having come in, the Thanksgiving-day holiday, another ER visit, and our first snow of the year. According to State Farm, insurance claims for collisions with deer rise significantly in the fall when deer are mating, with November having the highest claim frequency. And deer tend to be most active around dawn and dusk, particularly between 6-9 p.m. With our over 90-car fleet, statistically, it should come as no surprise that we would have such an accident. Wednesday, shortly after 6 p.m., I (Russell) got a call from two of our young sister missionaries. They were on a quiet country two-lane highway, saw the deer off to the side of the road, slowed down and watched it going away from the road; only to then have it turn back around and run into the oncoming light of their car’s headlights. The sisters said they were okay, and that the car wasn’t really hurt too bad. I asked if they had “bagged” their deer. To which they responded that they couldn’t find it or even any blood. I think all three of us were pleased that the deer survived, but it did mean that we wouldn’t be having venison for Thanksgiving dinner.
On Thanksgiving Day, we had a fabulous dinner with most (19 of 25) of the senior missionaries. One benefit of having lots of senior sisters is that they can cook well, really well! We had eight kinds of pies. Eileen had been worried about the young missionaries cooking their own turkeys and thought she might be spending Thanksgiving evening dealing with cases of food poisoning. We did have a few such cases, but it wasn’t from the missionaries’ cooking. I chalk that up as a win.
Friday afternoon/evening, Eileen found herself back at an ER not far from Independence with two young missionaries. Eileen came home that night frustrated, after taking the missionaries back to their apartment (they got there via ambulance). She felt that the situation could have been easily avoidable.The next morning Eileen was up early, making her medical notes about the past night’s ER visit in the Church’s Missionary Medical computer system. Around the time she finished, another young missionary called her. He was just reporting in following some medical challenges he had recently experienced. He told Eileen that he was doing significantly better, which given the circumstances was pretty miraculous. After the call, I could tell Eileen was still frustrated over the events of the previous evening. I knew she was justified in her feelings, but also recognized her being upset wasn’t doing her or anyone else any good. The thought came to me to ask her to focus on two blessings. The first blessing being that one month earlier, Eileen had recorded in her Missionary Medical notes regarding the applicable missionary from the night before, that this very issue was likely to occur if corrective action by the missionary was not taken. The second blessing being the call she had just received from the young elder. Both the timing of the call and the fact that he did report in (Eileen generally has to chase the missionaries down to follow up with them) was unusual. Both events were blessings, easy to overlook, but blessings, tender mercies, nonetheless. My guess is that I often miss God’s attempts to bless/help me during my difficult times because I am too focused on my problem of the moment.
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