Sunday, January 29, 2017

RENDERING SERVICE IN ROMANIA

This past week has been a very busy one with many events that have reminded us of our blessings.

As I have mentioned previously, I (Eileen) play the piano for primary on Sundays. This is the children’s organization at church. A couple of weeks ago I talked with one of the Moms regarding her family. She mentioned that her son was high functioning autistic. I have observed him in primary and have suspected that he was autistic. I told this Mom that we have a family member who is also high functioning autistic and then proceeded to talk with the boy about his love for computers. Last Sunday, this young man approached me to talk after church. He spent about 15 minutes talking about school, his favorite computer games and how many languages he speaks.  This interaction made me very happy, as I know this young man really struggles socially. I hope that he feels like I am someone “safe” to talk with.

Monday evening we had a Family Home Evening with Elder and Sister Swenson speaking. They are the Young Adult leaders for the Europe Area. We heard about all the great programs available for Young Adults (ages 18-30) in Europe. 

Tuesday we left for Romania to train the Shurtleffs.  They are serving as the humanitarian couple in Bucharest.  Elder and Sister Shurtleff are from Illinois and the below freezing temperatures with significant humidity and wind didn’t seem to faze them.  Russell and I struggled to keep warm as we moved from one appointment to the next via metro and walking. 

There has been a lot of snow lately in Bucharest


Russell training the Shurtleffs
The crowds getting off the metro
What do you do with all those clothes to keep you warm when you are finally on the metro?


 Tuesday evening we went to one of the chapels to have a meeting with President Doru (the leader of one of our church’s congregations in Bucharest), his wife and three representatives of an NGO that offers assistance to refugees with their integration in Romania.  Mr. Rifai left Aleppo twenty years ago, came to Bucharest and married a Romanian woman.  He and two other Syrian women work to assist Syrian refugees who have fled the wartime violence in their own country and traveled to Romania.  Unlike most other refugees we have encountered, these are not on their way to Western Europe but rather waiting until the war is over and they can return home.
In April 2016 Elder Patrick Kearon, who is the Europe Area President of our church, gave a remarkable talk in General Conference.  It was entitled “Refuge from the Storm” In this talk he said “There are an estimated 60 million refugees in the world today, which means that 1 in every 122 humans…. has been forced to flee their homes,” and half of these are children. Shortly after this time our church started an initiative entitled “I was a Stranger: the Call for Relief,” This initiative invites individuals of all ages to give to service to refugees in their neighborhoods and local communities. 

After hearing Elder Kearons’ talk and reading of the refugee initiative, President Doru (a branch president in Bucharest) determined that his congregation needed to do something to help the refugees. He sent out calls and emails to organizations trying to determine where assistance would be most beneficial.  After contacting Mr. Rifai a friendship was formed and a “Christmas party” was organized at our church building.  Close to 100 people attended this party, most of whom were not members of our church.  Food was served, music was offered and gifts given to the children, courtesy of the branch and President Ivory of the Romania/Moldova mission. 

As we talked with the representatives of this NGO we recognized the good feelings that were created with the refugees as they participated in this event.  President Doru wanted to know how best to help the Syrians who have left the awful events in their homeland.  These are the needs as the representatives mentioned: 1) activities for their children so they could experience music, art and get help with homework; 2) language classes to help learn both Romanian and English; 3) help with skills training for some of the adults so they could work; and 4) have future interactions with the Romanian members of our church so that the refugees and members can have the opportunity to get to know each other as friends, rather than as Christians and refugees.

The meeting was a real emotional and spiritual high for me.  President Doru explained our home teaching program and the importance of having someone aware of individual needs. He discussed the importance of families and I showed them Family Search where my family line is traced back for hundreds of years. Mr. Rifai said that genealogy is important in his culture also and that he knows his lineage for several hundred of years. 
Chapel in Bucharest
Missionaries teach English and Romanian lessons
Looking at the NGO's blog
Discussing potential projects
We discussed possible projects for the future. In February there will be a movie night where members of the church and the refugees can enjoy a movie together with some snacks.  March there will be an international night where everyone will bring a favorite food. Attendees will be able to learn more about each other’s cultures. In April a talent show will take place.  It was amazing to see the interaction between two groups of people from such different backgrounds working together for a common cause, to help the refugees integrate into Romanian society.  At the end of the meeting I thought about the fact that we all believe in God, we are truly brothers and sisters.  He wants us to care for each other and show love and kindness to one another.

Here is a link for the newscast shown on the NGO's website regarding the Christmas party.  Place your mouse on the link. It is rather dark, but it will take you to their website. Scroll to the bottom where it says DIMA TV, it is the 1st and 3rd video under DIMA TV.
                                                          syria.ro

Thursday we met two NGO partners. In the morning we went to a “safe house” operated by the group Solwodi. We met with two lovely nuns, one of who is an attorney and one who is a social worker, along with another woman who is a social worker. They told us about the great work they do with trafficked and abused women and children.  Not only do they provide a safe place for them to live, but they also help them on a long-term basis to try and become self-reliant. They have counseling services to help the women develop better mothering skills, and to try and boost their self-esteem.  At one point a young Roma girl who has been abused walked in and met us. Both Russell and I thought she looked like one of our granddaughters.  It was quite emotional for me to think of all that has happened to this girl in the past, and what brought her to the shelter in the first place.  As we left the shelter, one of the sister nuns showed us some origami greeting cards made by the women and children of the shelter. I tried to buy some, however was told the cards I was shown were only for display. They let me choose one that I will give to the missionaries in Germany who just had a daughter pass away. I loved the cards and would be glad to pay to buy some. My thoughts were if they could produce a large quantity of these cards I would think they could really bring some income in for the women.  Soap and candles are also being made as a fundraiser. We appreciated the efforts of this organization to help move the families in a direction of being self-reliant, something that may take years to accomplish.

                                                         Website for this organization
                                                                    www.solwodi.ro

Elder and Sister Shurtleff, Healy and Sister Adina

Women are taught to bottle vegetables for the winter

Sister Adina with craft project done by one of the women

Origami cards are made by the women

They sell these homemade cards for $1.50/a piece. I think they could sell for much more in the U.S.
Thursday afternoon we met with Ian Tilling and other workers from the NGO Casa Ioana. Ian is a retired police officer from the U.K. He came to Romania 20 years ago to help the people here. He started out with a desire to help the many disabled children of Romania. Now he has created a shelter for the homeless.  He has two social workers on his staff that do counseling with the families in the shelter. Others offer direction as they teach budgeting and life skills.  Ian was thrilled about the fact that a Japanese foundation has offered him 25,000 Euros to renovate his shelter.  As we walked around the shelter I could see that the shelter was in desperate need for renovations.  Once renovated, the plans look like it will be a warm and inviting place for the homeless to reside in.  LDS Charities has provided a refrigerator and washing machine for the shelter in the past.  Elder and Sister Shurtleff are excited about the possibility of assisting and are already creating plans to implement a project with this group.

          Website for this group-the language can be changed in the upper right hand corner.
                                                         www.casaioana.org

Ian showing us the new plans for the shelter
A bedroom, sorely in need of renovation
I love this "we can do it" plaque from WWII
Friday we met with Dr. Romanescu with the Regina Maria Foundation.  We visited a medical clinic where services are offered for the poor and homeless in Bucharest who would not have an option for medical care elsewhere. We were told that if someone has a medical condition and does not have insurance often they would go to the Emergency Room for care, as that would be covered by the government.  Unfortunately many of the homeless have conditions that require a long-term care plan i.e.: diabetes, asthma, heart problems, frostbite, and tuberculosis.  Dr. Romanescu has a staff of volunteer doctors to assist with each specialty to give medical care to recipients. His colleague who is a psychologist helps evaluate the needs of the homeless to see where they are emotionally and if there is a way he can help them connect with programs to meet their needs.  LDSC has offered assistance in the past by donating equipment for this organization.  Again we were very impressed with the work that is being done to help the truly needy of Romania.
Eileen meeting with Dr. Romanescu and psychologist

This is the sterilizer donated by LDSC to sterilize instruments
I came home with a bad cold but a wonderful feeling seeing all the good that is being done in Romania.  I appreciate being able to serve with my best friend and companion.

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